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Should You Tell Your Girlfriend or Wife You Are Going to Enlarge Your Penis?

That’s an interesting question that we stumble across from more men than we ever thought we would hear. Really, should you tell your wife or girlfriend that you are going to enlarge your penis?

It’s a tricky question and, of course, it depends on the woman. Our experience has shown that when a woman tells a man she is going to get breast implants, the guys say, “Yeah, that’s fine, honey, whatever” and are secretly jumping for joy inside. With women, this isn’t always the case. From our experience, women tend to wonder if you are trying to enlarge your tackle because you want to go fishing for different fish. However, some women are open to it, or at least say they are. Really, with women, it’s hard to know what they really mean compared to what they really say. This is what makes them so fascinating.

We have had instances where men engaged in penis enlargement and shared it with their wives (no girlfriends here) and the response actually helped their love life and marriage. This was something we never expected. What seemed to be the case with these couples is that the woman would help the man with his penis enlargement exercises. In all the cases it was fun, enjoyable, and interesting for both of them and it also set the stage for a different form of foreplay. That is, massaging the penis this way and focusing both couples attention on it was a great way to turn them both on. Who would have thought? So, in these instances, sharing the enlargement process actually added to the closeness, happiness, and love in their relationships.

If you are living with your girlfriend or wife, it can be difficult to find the free time (alone) to enlarge yourself, especially if you are using weights, extenders, or exercises. So, one reason for letting your girl know, in these instances, is that it might be difficult to conceal what you are doing. Of course, this isn’t always a problem, but consider if your wife/girlfriend would rather you tell her this before she found out, on her own, that you were trying to enlarge your penis. If you think it would be better to tell her upfront instead of her finding out on her own, then it would be best to use that approach.

Thanks to the Internet and the like, such subjects that were once taboo, such as penis enlargement, aren’t so taboo any longer. Especially if your wife/girlfriend has an open mind, then revealing such information shouldn’t be a problem. This is definitely a plus. However, your mileage may vary.

None of the men we discussed this with felt that their wives were “jumping for joy” because they told their better halves that they were going to enlarge themselves. However, most women responded that it was “cute,” “it should be interesting,” and ‘enjoy yourself.” Getting some inside information from my wife from some of these other women, the women seemed to certainly be curious about it and felt that it actually would be “great” if his penis was bigger – not that they openly admitted this to the men. The women felt it would be “great,” not so much for the extra sexual stimulation, but that because it would be something “new” to try after having the same penis from all their married years; and they looked forward to having a new “toy,” so to speak.

Most men noted that almost all of the women, who were told that the man was going to enlarge himself, felt instantly moved to tell the men that their penis size was big enough for them and they didn’t have to enlarge it for their benefit. (That’s some great women!) However, some women really pushed to find out why her man was interested in enlarging himself if his size was good enough for her! Again, back to the concept that he must be enlarging his tackle to find other fish to catch. So be careful!

Anyway, hopefully this article will give both men and women a little insight into questions like this and to aid them in getting an idea as to how other people responded in such circumstances.

Georg von Neumann

Adolescent Therapy And Early Sexual Debut

This clinical research project, written by Dr. Cortney Weissglass, who will be a New York psychologist, seeks to investigate the relationship between parent-child relationships and early involvement in sexual activity among adolescent females. Adolescent females’ early sexual debut is a considerable problem in the United States, with an estimated 4% of females under the age of 13 initiating sexual intercourse (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2008). These younger adolescents do not reliably use contraceptives; therefore, have an increased risk for STDs (Abma et al., 2004) and also for later economic and educational difficulties should they become pregnant (Rodgers, 1999; Staton et al., 1999; Taylor-Seehafer and Rew, 2000). Adolescent risky sexual activity is often a topic for therapy in New York.

Another consideration for New York psychologists surrounds the parent-child relationship. Parent-child relationship factors were reviewed with respect to early sexual debut. New York psychologists should be aware that aspects of family relationships such as frequent and open communication and a close, supportive, warm parent-adolescent relationship balanced with appropriate supervision, discipline, and limit-setting were consistently found to be related to overall adolescent psychological functioning and a decrease in risky sexual behaviors including delayed sexual debut (Nagamatsu et al., 2008; Raffaelli and Crocket, 2003; Ream and Savin-Williams, 2005). When seeking therapy in New York, it is important to understand that each of the empirically validated family therapy treatments of Functional Family Therapy, Multidisciplinary Family Therapy, and Multisystemic Family Therapy reviewed appear to address multiple factors involved in early sexual debut (Henggeler and Schaeffer, 2010; Liddle, 2010;Waldron and Brody, 2010). Recommendations for further research to address some of the remaining limitations as well as applying existing family therapy modalities in order to address the significant familial factors involved in these risky behaviors were made.

As a psychologist in New York, I understand the unique challenges of working with adolescents engaging in risky sexual behaviors and I strive to provide therapy in New York that meets the needs of each of my clients. My research along with significant experience offering therapy to adolescents allows me to approach each of my clients with an understanding of the whole person. When I provide therapy in New York, I will offer a strengths-base approach that focuses on each client’s unique strengths and resiliency as a means to overcoming the obstacles they are facing.

Written by Dr. Cortney Weissglass as part of Clinical Research Project submitted to the Faculty of the American School of Professional Psychology of Argosy University, Washington, DC Campus, in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Psychology in Clinical Psychology. Dissertation chair: Ann Womack, PhD and Member: Jennifer McEwan, PhD. August, 2010.

For a full list of references, contact Dr. Weissglass

The Ina Rabbit Vibrator by Lelo

In the past year or two there has been a rise in the number of women and couples using sex toys. Maybe because the way the economy is, people are reverting to adult sex toys and novelties to occupy their time because it’s yours to keep and boosts your mood. The surprising aspect is that women and couples are investing in high quality adult sex toys to avoid spending unnecessary money on sex toys that don’t live up to the hype. In this article I will discuss one of these luxury adult sex toys. It’s called the Ina by Lelo. Lelo is one of the top of the line adult sex toy manufacturers especially in the production of rabbit vibrators. There designs are unique and aren’t stereotyped to the conventional rabbit vibrators and the quality is unmatched.

Briefly the Ina Rabbit Vibrator by Lelo is for the woman who wants it all in a sleek and stylish dual-action vibrator that reaches out seamlessly to the most erogenous zones. Through Ina’s finely-tuned and body-oriented design, she promises maximum intensity with the minimum of fuss. There is also a secret hiding among Ina’s eight variable stimulation modes; made possible by two individual motors, located in each pleasure point, Inas Circular Mode allows one sensual area to heighten to intensity while the level of vibrations is restricted elsewhere. Pleasure is then transferred alternately to create a sense of movement within, tantalizing her user before delivering the most prolonged feelings of satisfaction, time and time again.

The Ina Rabbit Vibrator is made from high grade silicon with a smooth plastic handle that has a solid feel in your hands. Because of its dual stimulation of the clitoris and vagina technically classifies it as a rabbit vibrator even thought it doesn’t look like the traditional rabbit. This vibrator is very quiet and is equipped with a rechargeable battery.

Lelo did it again with the construction of Ina. Besides having an adjustable clitoral stimulator it is designed for the user to easily locate here g-spot. Combining the clitoral and g-spot stimulation makes for an earthshaking orgasm. The Ina Rabbit Vibrator’s two arms can pull away from each other making it somewhat movable. This way clitoral stimulation can be adjusted to vaginal penetration. Lelo’s Ina is the quintessential soul mate for ladies and the perfect addition to their collection of sinfully hot vibrators.

Since the Ina Rabbit Vibrator by Lelo is quite expensive, utmost care should be performed on it. After each use wash the vibrator with antibacterial soap making sure not to get water into the battery charging area. Never use oil based lubricants with this sex toy, only water based is allowed. Oil based lubricants will wear the coating off the Ina.

4 Great Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life

Since time immemorial, long-term relationships and marriages have taken their toll on couples around the world. No matter how much you may love and respect your partner, amidst the stresses of life, there is a chance that at some stage your sex life will begin to appear boring and routinely predictable. However, it is important for you to remember that with a bit of creativity, you can get your sex life to sizzle all over again. Some people believe that having the same sexual partner for years automatically implies diminishing excitement. This is not true at all! Try these ideas to spice up your sex life, and you may just find that your partner is more appealing than ever before.

Pleasure Each Other

A lot of couples develop this unstated understanding that if they begin foreplay, they must end with sex, with roughly 20-30 minutes of fondling, caressing and stimulating in-between. Over time, such a routine may begin to appear exhausting and less than exciting. If that’s happening, it is time to change.

You don’t have to extend your foreplay to sex every time. If your partner is in a relaxed mood, try to continue relaxing or chatting, while you pleasure each other. A lot of people find that it is a surprisingly erotic experience to continue talking ‘normally’ while being pleasured and stimulated by their partner. The experience of taking your time to pleasure each other without rushing on is also a great way to reaffirm your love and connection.

Pleasure without Expectation

At times, you could even pleasure your partner without expecting anything in return. For instance if your wife is just relaxing in front of the TV or reading a book after a day at work, take the opportunity! Both, giving and receiving sexual stimulation can be great ways to de-stress, and if you do not saddle your partner with expectations, they may be more than game to just lie back and let you do your thing, even when they are exhausted. Besides, they will be more than happy to return the favor on another occasion!

Bedroom Games

If couples round the world are to be believed, this is one of the best ways to add spice to your sex life. If there is a board game, an outdoor one or any other kind that you both enjoy playing, you could set up rewards for the winner and penalties for the loser. I guess you should be the one to think about what those rewards/penalties should be!

Get Kinky

Are there any role-plays you have always dreamt of playing out in the bedroom? Why not share them with your partner? You could go visiting a lingerie or sex store and get in props, costumes and sex toys, or even get creative with things around the house without spending a penny! A woman recently revealed on a forum how she got her husband to strip down except for hard hat and a tool belt, and that is all it took for a wild night!

These are all great ways to spice up your sex life, but remember that this is only a brief highlight. There is a lot more that you can do, with some thought. The ultimate lesson is that a lifetime is not enough to run through all the possible ways to explore your own and your partner’s sexuality!

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Hormones Sexual Therapy Revives Love Life

Complications have utterly covered our lives and caused several mental-health problems. We come across with people suffering from depression, anxiety and various other addictions. With hormones sexual therapy, patients suffering from sex problems, in the majority of cases, afford to improve their love life and physical characteristics.

There is SRT (Sex Reassignment Therapy) which is also called gender reassignment. It is used for all medical procedures regarding sex reassignment of both intersexual and transgender people. The SRT consists of hormone replacement therapy to change secondary sex characteristics, surgery to modify primary sex characteristics and permanent hair removal for trans-women.

There is Hormone Replacement Therapy for transsexual men and women, causes the development of many of the secondary sexual characteristics of their desired sex.

Another sex hormone therapy is Chest Reconstruction Surgery for Male chest reconstruction and Breast implant. This process is done by binding of the chest tissue. The breast augmentation is also done.

But hormone replacement therapy varies person to person. It often takes psychological counseling. In that period, there is a test takes place which is known as “cross-living” or Real-Life-Test. If you’re a woman lacking in sex drive, it is imperative for you to take sex hormone therapy.

Most of us think how our hormones affect our sex lives. There are many women who accord their hormones are responsible for wrong in their sexual relationships. It is one of the commonest female problems is loss of sex desire. The sex therapy consultant understands our hormones and body.

Lots of research papers have put across so far but no any has yet managed to come up with any clear-cut result.

A woman’s ovaries produce large amounts of sex hormones – progesterone and oestrogen. They also produce small amounts of the male hormones – androstenedione and testosterone. But a common gland i.e., the pituitary gland secretes hormones: FSH (follicle stimulating hormone) and LH (Luteininsing Hormone), in both men and women.

Both sexes use Viagra to increase their sexual desire. Viagra is of little use because it has no effect on desire. There is no magic pill to you’re your problems. You need to make changes in your relationship.

Many sex experts are trying to deal with loss of libido. They believe lack of sympathy for partners has a great deal to do with a lack of sex drive.

Patients visit sex consultants because they understand that hormonal problem is the root cause of their unsatisfactory love-lives. The Hormone Sex therapy put this right in both men and women.

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What is The Best Way to Make a Woman Squirt? Female Ejaculation

Techniques Proven to Make Her Gush
What is the best way to make a girl squirt? Can any woman have a squirting orgasm? Is your girl able to have a squirting orgasm? How come it is so hard for a woman to be able to do this? Let’s answer all of these questions and more.

The truth about the female ejaculating orgasm is that any woman does have the ability to make it happen. Great news for you, right? Now you can take comfort in knowing that you can make it happen for her. So what do you do next? Do you just thrust your fingers inside of her and wait for it to happen? Not quite.

The biggest reason why so many women don’t have this kind of orgasm or in some cases, never will, is because they are afraid. Why you ask? Well, picture this. You are in the middle of sex with your girl and all of a sudden, an overwhelming sensation comes over you. Now, instead of feeling pleasure, you all of a sudden feel like you are going to pee. Would you hold back? Would you go for it? Would you be so distracted and worried you were going to pee all over her that it would just suck you out of the moment? This is exactly what happens to your girl. Right before she ejaculates, this rush comes over her and it’s no wonder she holds back. So if you want to make her gush, you need to help her get over this mental roadblock.

If you can accomplish this, then you can start using these other female ejaculation techniques to help her get even closer to having a squirting orgasm today!

The first technique is to make her have an orgasm via her clitoris first. This is not mandatory but it will help you tremendously because the more aroused she is and the more swollen she is on the inside with her g-spot, the easier it will be for you to find and to stimulate. The best way to make her come from clitoral stimulation is to use a vibrator or your tongue. Both are delicate and offer her plenty of amazing stimulation.

Once she has an orgasm from her clitoris, then the real fun can begin. That is when you can insert 2 fingers inside of her and instantly feel how tight she is. It will be easy to find her g-spot like this. When you do, then you can start stimulating her to bring her closer to ejaculation.

The biggest misconception men make when trying to stimulate a woman to bring her to squirt, is that they don’t know how to stimulate the g-spot properly. This orgasm is all about pressure building and to build pressure in her body, it is best to move your fingers up and down inside of her. This will create a lot of pressure in her body and it will feel amazing to her.

By using these female ejaculation techniques, you can make your girl squirt and you can make it happen a lot sooner than you ever thought possible. It’s time you made her dreams and your own come true tonight.

New Ways to Finding a Date Does And Do Nots of Speed Dating

Today is the era of fast food and lightning fast speed. People do not have time and this lack of time is seen in their relationship as well. Leave aside giving time to a relationship, people do not have time to get into a relationship. This lack of time has coined the concept of speed dating. Today my dating advice section will help you learn about speed dating.???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? Speed dating??is a formalized??matchmaking??process or??dating system??whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people.??An organization arranges an event wherein men and women meet many people at a time and the duration of every meet is around 3-8 minutes. At the end of each interval, the organizer rings a bell, clinks a glass, or blows a whistle to signal the participants to move on to the next date. When the event ends, the participants tell the organizer whom they would like to date and share their contact information. If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties. In the initial meeting providing contact information is strictly prohibited.

As per the details and research carried out on speed dating, I have some tips that will let you know the do’s and don’t’ of speed dating.

?? DO tell a person about your habits or quirks.

In the first sentence that you speak after introducing yourself you can speak about yourself. For example, “Hi, I’m really messy. What about you?” or ‘Oh, are we moving in together? Funny. I thought we’d just met.”

??DON’T use humor that might possibly be perceived as off-color, or worse, just plain un-funny.

??Don’t try to create humor by mocking at someone or imitating someone. You never know what the taste of the other person is and you would probably miss out someone. She probably does a better imitation of her relatives than your non-Indian self could anyway. Do you think this one will not be commented?

??DO feel comfortable voicing if you’re feeling nervous or awkward about anything or any sentence. ??

??”Hello, my name is…”tag, talking to someone for 5-6minutes and then moving on to meet another stranger at the sound of a gong. Chances are, your date feels the Twilight-Zone vibe, too.

??DON’T, for the??love, ever answer the “What do you do for a living?” question in the following manner:

??”Hmm, let’s see… how I can explain this to you? Have you seen “Pretty Woman”? Yes? Ok, I do what Richard Gere does in that movie.” If you stress on Richard Gere mind you that for women it was Julia Roberts in the movie. Be straight forward in your answers and not give such strange answers.

DO take notes. Seriously. You think it’d be easy to remember details about 15 people, but it’s not.

??Make a note of your meeting. There is nothing to shy about in this as this will show that you are serious about the speed dating session. These notes will later help you to choose the people you would like to meet or talk again.

DON’T knock it till you’ve tried it.

Don’t just give up. Try out your luck and the chance. Speed dating advice gives you the chance of interacting with so many people at once. At least you would make some very good friends.

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Grasp The Sex Signals, Make Sex Life Better

Nature is in control of the biological physical laws, so human sex will inevitably be affected. Recently, in United States, the magazine of “The Men’s Health” released a set of figures about sex, which contains a lot of sex laws. Take advantage of these signals about sex, can make the sex life better quality and more scientific.

At 6-7 o’clock in the morning, the body of a man is the most sensitive. Sexologist Kamal Branch Hu Rana study to found that at 6-7 o’clock in the morning, the male body is most sensitive and have the stronger sexual desire. After a night of rest,

Drove away the fatigue and recover more energy. Meanwhile, the male hormone secretion strong, harder erection and lasting. They feel relatively relaxed in Psychologically, and more confident of their sexuality. Therefore, wake up in the morning, tenderness and make love is a good choice.

Have the exchange after Sex 15 minutes is the best time. If you have any misunderstanding or should make an apology or explanation, please stay it after the sex then do it. The study found that 15 minutes after sex, men and women are with the highest degree of recognition and tolerance on the each other, so seize this moment with him (her) exchange, many problems will be solved.

A woman is most likely to produce the sexual fantasies at 22:00. The experts of the Harvard Medical School study found that around 22:00, creative cells of the female brain is most active, and they are more good at imagination, fantasy most of the content the “sex”, “love”. Therefore, the men are better to go to bed before 10 o’clock, and shared the passion with her.

From strangers to close contact with each other are at an average of 6 months. Love is about a mutual understanding and exploration process. Too fast will make us can not enjoy the fun of the love; too slow will lose the passion. Psychologists study found that in a successful marriage of the couple, from acquaintance to have sex with the average time is six months. “Six months is not too long, but the progress can make your feelings and sex lives are more harmonious,” the investigators said.

A men’s sexuality is the most unstable time is at 20:00. At 20:00 the man’s male hormone most volatile moment of the day, he will feel fatigue, and decreased the libido. If choose to make love at this time, they are in all likelihood will play disorders.

Please do not work within 1 hour after the sex. Because sex will inhibit the activity of the brain logical area and speed up the speed of the lower body blood circulation, make the brain transient ischemia. The will weakened logic capacity and ability to solve problems. So please have an hour of rest after sex, then deal with other matters.

Frequently change the sexual partners will make life shortened by 4.7 years. The partner change would endanger the heart health. Blood pressure is hard to stable. One study found that in France, have multiple or frequent replacement of sexual partners, will speed up the rate of aging, shortened life expectancy 4.7 years.

Please must remember these sex signals. It is important to get hold of the sex life skill, but also to grasp the laws of sex. The better way to get the best sex blessing.

Love And Hate Spontaneously

Cynthia Nixon got famous overnight with her starring in the TV series Sex and the City and now she is a mother of two children. One is named Samantha at the age of fourteen and the other is called Charles, who is only seven years old. If I were not mistaken, her former husband is Danny Mozes who is an English professor. They married in 1988 and maintained their relationship for about six years until 2003.

In the mind of the public, Cynthia Nixon is good image of a successful woman, wearing sexy costumes and fashion shoes on every formal occasions. She fulfilled her role of being a good wife and a good mother and made a hit with the HOB series, winning herself a succession of glories including Emmy, Tony and Grammy awards. Evert time she appears in the awards ceremony, in splendid evening dress and high heel shoes, each man will compare her with their wives. Cynthia Nixon is blessed with beauty and wisdom. However, after the revelation of her homosexual news, the enthusiasm of many of her fans begins to die down and they show less interest in and support for her.

Her dating with Christine Marinoni was reported to begin in the year of 2004. In the following years, more authoritative newspapers and magazines began to use substantial coverage to tell the public about the new stories about her life with Marinoni. For example, the New York Post once printed that in the early 2005, she had moved to Brooklyn to stay together with Marinoni. In face of the supposition and guesswork on the part of the media and the public, Cynthia Nixon determined to stand out and made it clear that she had not moved. The information was released by the New York Times. She said something more about her family, including her two kids, who were said to be kept in their Manhattan public schools.

When asked about her comments on her sexuality, she said it is very natural and she felt good at it. Nothing strange seemed to happen to her and she could handle everything pretty well.

I am in favor her remarks and I want to show my stalwart support for Cynthia Nixon, in spite of the fact that I am not a gay myself. It is never be of a scandal or something like that, for each of us can enjoy the right to show our love and hatred spontaneously.

Why Select Glass Sex Toys

Nicely, sure. They could not have lied intentionally, but it only takes a single initial lie or scientific misunderstanding for a comprehensive myth to occur. In our initially pretty religious society, a great deal of myths around sex toys and masturbation have developed. Nowadays we verify out 10 you can securely dismiss.

If you grew up in small older Ireland like I did, you are almost certainly acquainted with the phrases “masturbation is a sin” or “masturbation will make you go blind”.

The initially time you heard this was in all probability in college by the college nun or from the guys in your class who had obtained the same lesson from the school priest. Feel it or not, the Catholic Church very long considered that masturbation was a sin (they in all probability even now do!).