Month: April 2020

New Ways to Finding a Date Does And Do Nots of Speed Dating

Today is the era of fast food and lightning fast speed. People do not have time and this lack of time is seen in their relationship as well. Leave aside giving time to a relationship, people do not have time to get into a relationship. This lack of time has coined the concept of speed dating. Today my dating advice section will help you learn about speed dating.???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? Speed dating??is a formalized??matchmaking??process or??dating system??whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people.??An organization arranges an event wherein men and women meet many people at a time and the duration of every meet is around 3-8 minutes. At the end of each interval, the organizer rings a bell, clinks a glass, or blows a whistle to signal the participants to move on to the next date. When the event ends, the participants tell the organizer whom they would like to date and share their contact information. If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties. In the initial meeting providing contact information is strictly prohibited.

As per the details and research carried out on speed dating, I have some tips that will let you know the do’s and don’t’ of speed dating.

?? DO tell a person about your habits or quirks.

In the first sentence that you speak after introducing yourself you can speak about yourself. For example, “Hi, I’m really messy. What about you?” or ‘Oh, are we moving in together? Funny. I thought we’d just met.”

??DON’T use humor that might possibly be perceived as off-color, or worse, just plain un-funny.

??Don’t try to create humor by mocking at someone or imitating someone. You never know what the taste of the other person is and you would probably miss out someone. She probably does a better imitation of her relatives than your non-Indian self could anyway. Do you think this one will not be commented?

??DO feel comfortable voicing if you’re feeling nervous or awkward about anything or any sentence. ??

??”Hello, my name is…”tag, talking to someone for 5-6minutes and then moving on to meet another stranger at the sound of a gong. Chances are, your date feels the Twilight-Zone vibe, too.

??DON’T, for the??love, ever answer the “What do you do for a living?” question in the following manner:

??”Hmm, let’s see… how I can explain this to you? Have you seen “Pretty Woman”? Yes? Ok, I do what Richard Gere does in that movie.” If you stress on Richard Gere mind you that for women it was Julia Roberts in the movie. Be straight forward in your answers and not give such strange answers.

DO take notes. Seriously. You think it’d be easy to remember details about 15 people, but it’s not.

??Make a note of your meeting. There is nothing to shy about in this as this will show that you are serious about the speed dating session. These notes will later help you to choose the people you would like to meet or talk again.

DON’T knock it till you’ve tried it.

Don’t just give up. Try out your luck and the chance. Speed dating advice gives you the chance of interacting with so many people at once. At least you would make some very good friends.

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