Are women materialistic ‘gold-diggers’ or is this their social character and conditioning? For their ‘make benefit’ I can differentiate their actions and help justify their often erratic and nonsensical behavior.

For example when J.Lo sings ‘love don’t cost a thing’ and the next moment she is flashing off all her bling and only choosing guys with high social value, I can still differentiate that.

Most guys will get confused but she is actually right. Love doesn’t cost a thing but this is her natural

character speaking. Her social character which glamorizes materialism is a whole different matter (like, the OPPOSITE). She represents all of those characteristics within her entire character.

You also are not limited just to your ‘inner game’.

Remember that women will adapt to their social environment (generally more readily than men will).

This will continue to influence them and their behavior. Compare that to if a Paris Hilton wasn’t born into social royalty but instead in a village in a 3rd world country. She would have different influences from the wouldn’t be the same.

When you can realize the truth of what I call Causal influence and cultural differentiation, you’ll understand the root of the Inner and Social behavior any woman has.

So let’s take a Mariah Carey. A desirable female with a social leverage ratio of say 100,000,000:1 or the number of guys who would want to sleep with her. If you play the social game, you probably have a social leverage ratio 2:1 maybe.

If you want to have ANY chance with a woman like that, you HAVE TO BE equal in power in the first place. Unfortunately most guys just don’t have that level of similar social power in their character.

So if you’re not equal in power to 100,000,000:1 like she has, there is little chance of ‘scoring’ with a
woman like that.

Fortunately as a man, you have infinite power you can leverage in your Natural character. You have the ability to be relationally equal to her. How? By applying relational mapping and differentiating yourself from the social matrix itself. You can gain your true independence and not be thrown off by anything that comes from the social ‘game’ where her power lies.

As a man, you naturally have authority over women. That is the NATURAL way of things. So to succeed with extremely beautiful women, don’t play the social game of cutting her down and trying to rise yourself up.

Instead, BE powerful and truly equal in the FIRST place.

I am not afraid of any woman on earth anymore because I know my relationship to their power (no matter how wonderful or developed). I have the true power of one because I am leveraging power greater than me within my character.

Now I am able to respect them because I respect myself.

Other men who would want this level of independence can have it too. Too many men are just intimidated by women and the women don’t like it because it limits their options.

It’s not done through hypnosis, NLP, body language techniques and definitely NOT pick up lines. It can be achieved through applying alpha relational dynamics.

Women have changed a lot over the past 2 decades in the Westernized world. They are more independent than ever before so it’s up to you know what those behavioral characteristics mean to you and how they (should) affect you.

When you have clarity, you’ll know when to stop a woman from crossing your own boundaries such as not letting her (social character) use you as a gold-digging tool. You’ll know to work with the love don’t cost a thing part of her; her natural and pure character.

Your ability to differentiate these characteristic behaviors can often mean the difference between success and failure, bliss or divorce.

-Rion Williams

This article is for guys of any age. It will guide you to feeling much more confident about talking with the opposite sex and making yourself more attractive to them. By the time you reach the end of this article you will be well on your way to winning at the Pickup and Dating game instead of just getting by.

How can we make something that sounds so simple, so difficult and frustrating. First, guys are great talking to each other about guy things, sports, computers, cars, home repair, and so forth. We continue right along talking about the ups and downs of our dating relationships. But, we do not know what we are talking about for the simple reason that we do not know how women think. Women do not think like guys! We must take time out to learn how they think.

Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that is simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. It is important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you have already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. Try to use a contact close when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss.

When you find yourself talking to a group of girls, use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you are talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This gives a sense of competition to the girl you are really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

Getting girls to feel an attraction for you – that is not simply based on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you have got parked outside – can be really tricky. For example, most men think saying: Can I have your number? is an okay way to finish a conversation that has gone well with a girl. But there is a much more powerful and effective way of saying the same thing. Something like: It has been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow? What you are doing is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she is likely to create her own alternative, which means there is a chance she will not say yes to the option you gave her.

Men who are successful with women create that success for themselves – not through luck or good fortune. Always look your best. This sounds really obvious but you would be surprised by how many men do not understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it is become a bit of a cliche because it is true – first impressions really do count. Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you do not know her – well, that is how women feel too.

Body language is very important. It is more important to pay careful attention to how you say things, and how you stand and how you act than it is to what you say (at least initially).

Do not limit yourself to singles bars for meeting women. There are other better places, shopping malls for one. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a womans eye, smile at her ? more often than not, she will smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they do not want to smile, they probably will. Good practice, and you might even brighten a few womens lives a little. Not big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you. After you have smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good about yourself.

I wish women had shared these kinds of tips when I was growing up. I could have saved myself from a lot of relationships that went nowhere, and the heart break that went with it.

Each mature person in our lives is after a relationship that might turn out to be something that is very effective, even if it is forever. People have come to realize that before you even think of dating and meeting anybody out there in a fun-filled evening, there is the question of whether the person will be able to handle the kind of pressure that comes with any relationships. People have to realize that there is a power which exists past the single world and singles perception of life, to a point of taking it slow and with a careful nature and cool behavior so that they can minimize risks.

The way the people take dating in modern sense is affected mostly by the thoughts that they have regarding the outcome and final effect that they expect the dating relationship to have brought in their lives. People are in search of a system that will automatically allow them to have a say on how they want to have their relationships taking shape, such that they are not ready to just risk and come out fuming after a systems failure. The first thing that they come to be sure about is that dating is a process of reawakening which puts a person at a better chance in terms of friendship and love issues.

You can imagine a process of knowledge without dating; the things that we take for granted would really hard to come by. This includes such things as having in our lives the inherent joy of knowing the essence of our character and what really makes us feel good. You want to know how to handle the person you are in love with as well as how he or she does their own things. This is all in trying to come across all that you can find for you to be certain that the person you are dating is the kind of person you have been searching for.

You must be aiming at scoring big in a relationship score card, and it is the reason as to why you want to make sure you have began the relationship from a point of strength as you perfect it in dating instances. You must begin dating for friendship purposes, where you are going out to meet suitable men or women who might make something huge in future. Dating has come of as one of those things that you want to do for the rest of your life if it?s possible, because it so cool and splendid.

You are held up between marriage perfection and attainment of a great friendship. It is the reason as to why dating has always been blissful and the love of many. You are in one long or short journey of absolute discovery. You cannot avoid dating if you are after attaining the best from your relationship and you must engage in it if you have to be at par with your feelings. You leave them to speak their inherent wisdom to you.

It?s not easy to make new friends and find a suitable partner for dating relationships. People today are very busy and don?t generally have time to meet people in the traditional way. That is why online dating services have become so popular. It is also a great business to get into for profit.

There are a lot of single people out there. Some of the larger online dating websites can claim 700,000 profiles and personal ads running on their sites. This shows that there are a great many people who are searching for their ideal mate. Marriages have been found through online dating and the possibilities are limitless.

There are millions of dollars being made with online dating services. This is a huge potential for a new business venture.

It is relatively easy to sell the basic needs that everyone has. It is particularly true of emotional needs. Dating, love and romance are some of those emotional needs. You will turn a profit by selling the romance to these people that are looking for the right person to share their life with.

There are some things that you should take into consideration before you start an online dating service.

Develop a good solid business plan. Many businesses fail because of a lack of planning. A business plan allows you to grow your business and operate with your plan in operation. Investors will want to view your business plan before they make a decision to invest in your business.

A method of managing the website is crucial. You should allow for web site design and get yourself a great web designer. Your website must be able to attract visitors to be successful, make sure your web host can handle the amount of visitors you expect. It might be in your best interest to host your own website.

You must plan your marketing and advertising strategy. You will require a great deal of money to get started on your advertising. You will be competing with the big boys so you will need to have your site stand out from the pack.

A good solid financial plan is necessary when you are starting any kind of business. This will help you determine how your money is allocated and the costs of operating your business are covered. You should also include your long-term financial goals.

Once you have all of those things in place you will be ready to launch your online dating service. You will be providing a great service to people who are looking to meet the person of their dreams. And you will be making a huge profit for your efforts.