If you ask a guy what he expects to gain by enlarging his penis, the first answer that usually comes to his mind is that it's going to help him get luckier with more women. When pressed for a deeper meaning, most men tend to wonder what else is there really to it?
I was like this, too, when I embarked on my penis enlargement discovery journey. However, I hardly realized that the greatest treasure in penis enlargement doesn't lie within your bigger penis. No. It lies within yourself.
Let me try to explain: I wanted a bigger penis to get more girls, more specifically, so that I wouldn't feel shy about my size around women. Since I was shy to begin with, I tried to close any loophole that would lessen my chances of meeting up with a sweetheart of a woman and coming across like a bumbling idiot. What this really meant was that I was using the penis-enlargement procedure to actually enlarge my own confidence. I didn't put two and two together, at the beginning, but as my enlargement procession marched onward, the reality of my lack of self-confidence became clearer and clearer.
Once I had reached a significant size, which wasn't easy with all the trial, tribulation, rejected methods and pointless exercises, setbacks, disappointments, and useless products that had passed through my penis (in one way or another), I began to truly notice that I was beginning to change as a person. And in a good way. However, I didn't think it was very drastic or noticeable.
It was surely noticed by some people I worked with and a few friends. Especially those friends that I hadn't seen in a while. Their observations were that I seemed more alive, energetic, and happy. These are nice ways, I think, of them letting me know that they had seen a rise in my own confidence. I had become a more dynamic and exciting person.
I noticed my shyness seemed to be melting away, especially with women, as they've always had a terrifying effect on me! That's a bit of an exaggeration, actually, but if I really was attracted to a girl then I became a bundle of nerves and emotions. When I would speak to such girls, my ears would start turning red. Once I was aware of this, then my whole face would start turning red... Man, I can honestly say that I don't miss those days one bit.
Of course, no one probably wants to admit that they lack confidence in themselves, but this was the case with me. In some areas of life I had complete confidence, in others areas, however, I was surely lacking.
But, let's get back to the changes that were coming over me and my shyness disappearing: it was such a gradual and natural change that I wasn't really aware of the impact it was having on me. Once my friends started to point things out and I reflected on my decrease in shyness, it's like I finally woke up one day and my shyness with women had magically disappeared. It was certainly a neat feeling to experience.
This can all be attributed to successfully enlarging my penis, I certainly believe. This phenomena didn't just happen with me, either. Many men note the same results when they are successful in their enlargement goals. Many men.
And I've heard from similar men stating that not only did their self-esteem and confidence improve, but that, in many cases, they didn't even realize that they were shy, lacking confidence, lacking self-worth, or any of the rest of that family of feelings that holds us back in life. This was a real eye-opener for a lot of men. Especially my friend and co-author Igor.
It seems a bit sad (and scary) that some of us are holding ourselves back in life and we don't even realize it! As they say, sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. I honestly feel that such things probably affect everyone to some degree or another. Some less, some more; and, of course, depending on the mental malady that is involved.
Thus, the real treasure that I discovered, and that so many other men have discovered through the enlargement process is the priceless gift of boosting their self-esteem, supercharging their self-confidence, and multiplying their self-worthiness.
What's even more fantastic is that by exorcising these demons (again, some that we may not even be aware of that we have), we become stronger, healthier, and more dynamic individuals. By feeling so much better about ourselves, this allows us to tackle just about anything we might encounter in life, with the courage and determination that we can fix it, accomplish it, improve it, master it, or defeat it.
As these ideals take over your entire substance, you perform better at sports, you look and feel more attractive, you beam a healthy radiance, your work improves, you get that raise and promotion you've been pining for - for all of those wasted years, your memory gets clearer, your life becomes uncluttered, and you begin to play a more active and enjoyable role in this crazy game that we call life. I call it, "Enlarge Your Penis and Enlarge Your Life," which, I believe, for myself and many other men, is the real treasure that penis enlargement can help you discover.
Then, strangely enough, you realize that you never needed a larger penis in the first place... If you only had had that self-confidence to begin with.
So, whether you realize it or not, there is a chance that enlarging your penis will certainly enlarge your life. Some men don't need it, some men do. All I can say is that the enlargement of my life and confidence was a greater and more precious reward than getting a bigger penis. However, I found that they seem to go hand in hand with one another.
Georg von Neumann