That's an interesting question that we stumble across from more men than we ever thought we would hear. Really, should you tell your wife or girlfriend that you are going to enlarge your penis?
It's a tricky question and, of course, it depends on the woman. Our experience has shown that when a woman tells a man she is going to get breast implants, the guys say, "Yeah, that's fine, honey, whatever" and are secretly jumping for joy inside. With women, this isn't always the case. From our experience, women tend to wonder if you are trying to enlarge your tackle because you want to go fishing for different fish. However, some women are open to it, or at least say they are. Really, with women, it's hard to know what they really mean compared to what they really say. This is what makes them so fascinating.
We have had instances where men engaged in penis enlargement and shared it with their wives (no girlfriends here) and the response actually helped their love life and marriage. This was something we never expected. What seemed to be the case with these couples is that the woman would help the man with his penis enlargement exercises. In all the cases it was fun, enjoyable, and interesting for both of them and it also set the stage for a different form of foreplay. That is, massaging the penis this way and focusing both couples attention on it was a great way to turn them both on. Who would have thought? So, in these instances, sharing the enlargement process actually added to the closeness, happiness, and love in their relationships.
If you are living with your girlfriend or wife, it can be difficult to find the free time (alone) to enlarge yourself, especially if you are using weights, extenders, or exercises. So, one reason for letting your girl know, in these instances, is that it might be difficult to conceal what you are doing. Of course, this isn't always a problem, but consider if your wife/girlfriend would rather you tell her this before she found out, on her own, that you were trying to enlarge your penis. If you think it would be better to tell her upfront instead of her finding out on her own, then it would be best to use that approach.
Thanks to the Internet and the like, such subjects that were once taboo, such as penis enlargement, aren't so taboo any longer. Especially if your wife/girlfriend has an open mind, then revealing such information shouldn't be a problem. This is definitely a plus. However, your mileage may vary.
None of the men we discussed this with felt that their wives were "jumping for joy" because they told their better halves that they were going to enlarge themselves. However, most women responded that it was "cute," "it should be interesting," and 'enjoy yourself." Getting some inside information from my wife from some of these other women, the women seemed to certainly be curious about it and felt that it actually would be "great" if his penis was bigger - not that they openly admitted this to the men. The women felt it would be "great," not so much for the extra sexual stimulation, but that because it would be something "new" to try after having the same penis from all their married years; and they looked forward to having a new "toy," so to speak.
Most men noted that almost all of the women, who were told that the man was going to enlarge himself, felt instantly moved to tell the men that their penis size was big enough for them and they didn't have to enlarge it for their benefit. (That's some great women!) However, some women really pushed to find out why her man was interested in enlarging himself if his size was good enough for her! Again, back to the concept that he must be enlarging his tackle to find other fish to catch. So be careful!
Anyway, hopefully this article will give both men and women a little insight into questions like this and to aid them in getting an idea as to how other people responded in such circumstances.
Georg von Neumann