You may be eagerly waiting for your hot date. You may spend all day getting ready. You may be enjoying your online date. However, things are not always rosy. There are times when things go awfully wrong. You may want to avoid the bad online date. It is common that you want to escape through the bathroom window. It is wise to end the date in such situations to avoid any future problems. You need to refuse him gently. However, being too gentle with a person in whom you have no interest at all can make him think you continue having an interest in him.
If your dating partner has an issue with hygiene like body odor or bad breath, then you may wish to turn off the date. The problem becomes worse if you have little or no tolerance to unhygienic conditions. You can follow a direct approach in such cases. You can offer him a chewing gum or breath mints.
If your date embarrasses you in public by making extremely noisy conversations and laughs loud, then you may find it difficult to continue your relationship. People around you may stare at you and the situation may really frustrate you. You can then end such bad online dates by complaining about some severe stomach pain or head ache. Then you can avoid attending his phone calls. Your date would gradually realize that you do not want to continue the relationship.
If you come across a horrible dating experience, then you can tell your partner directly that you do not like him. You can end the date faster this way. However, this method is not suitable if you do not feel comfortable making a direct communication.
It is better to ask for an excuse to go home. You can explain to him why you need to go immediately. If you feel that your date is a jerk, then do not waste time in trying to convince him. Just get out early as possible. You can tell him tenderly that you do not have any passion for him. Be courteous in ending up the relationship. However, do not give him a kiss, as this would send a wrong signal.
In many cases, honesty is the best policy. If the person lied about his age or appearance, then it is quite natural that you want to end that date when you meet him directly. Since he is not truthful to you, you need not worry about his feelings. If he asks you as to why you want to end the date, then tell him the truth that you want to date an honest person.
You can ask your friend to call you while you are out with your date for the first time. If you do not like the person, you can use the phone call to escape the bad online date. You can get away from uncomfortable questions by saying that there is some urgent work to attend to.
Once you end a bad online date, you need to screen your phone calls for a few weeks until the person understands that you do not like him and stops annoying you.